You’re not ready to go for it; if the pain is ok for you and you’re thinking: “I can handle feeling this way for a few more years”, then you are not the right person for my Turn Yourself On System. And that’s ok, when it’s the right time for you, I’ll be here.
You’re not going to implement or do your Blisswork, or if you feel you are not 100% responsible for your life (and therefore it’s someone else’s fault as to why… or someone else has the power.) It will be impossible for you to receive the change you have come to me for. I lovingly ask that you find another person to support you instead.
You just want nice fluffy healing and affirmations because you’re not ready/scared of facing yourself. It takes bravery to confront your deepest issues and patterns.
This might sound strange, but if you work with me you have to be COACHABLE! What does that mean? It means if you’re not willing to listen, if you don’t value personal transformation, if you’re skeptical and don’t trust and believe in what I say, then I’m going to have a really hard time delivering you value.
You’re entitled and want me to “fix” you, are cheating on your partner, your taxes or are not nice to animals. You have to have ethics. This is my personal policy.
You’re experiencing severe depression, an eating disorder, an addiction, something that you’d need to see a specialist for. This coaching is for when you want to shift one or two areas of your life.
You prefer a left brained, masculine, cognitive approach. There’s nothing wrong with this, but I am not the coach for you if that’s all you want. My subconscious processes, intuitive ability and feminine mindset coaching won’t have a place to land in you if you prefer to stay in your head. (And again, that’s really ok if that’s what usually works for you.)
You think I am the answer. No. YOU are the answer! I’m guiding you. If you aren’t ready to take notes and take personal responsibility, you simply won’t transform.
You can’t put food on the table because you’ve said yes to me. It’s good to stretch financially but not if it’s giving you stress.
You’re reading three other books and seeing three other coaches – like a dating coach, business coach and meditation teacher. This leads to overwhelm in you and an inability to implement, which may be part of your problem. I invite you to just focus on this coaching for the next 24 sessions so you get the most out of it. Otherwise you’re just wasting your time and your money and I’d hate to see you do that to yourself.