September 9, 2014
I no longer find myself going up and down with my ex like a yo-yo, now my life is so full and vibrant and happy that he has little effect on me. I am free!
Before I started the Divorce Coaching Program with Marina, my marriage had recently failed, I was living in a place I didn’t want to be, I was scared and felt very alone. My daughter’s father was very angry that I had left and was punishing me every way he could. I was stressed and isolated; I didn’t trust my instincts, or my ability to make decisions for myself and my daughter.
And now? I am in a bit of shock actually, because I used to believe that I didn’t deserve my dreams and now everything I wanted at the start of this coaching I have received (with some lovely extras!)
Such as – I no longer find myself going up and down with my ex like a yo-yo, now my life is so full and vibrant and happy that he has little effect on me. I am free!
I have taken control of my finances so I am no longer reliant upon my ex husband for my financial security now and for the future.
And I now work in a job I love with wonderful supportive people and am being paid what I am worth
I am noticing that men are noticing me again – YES I am an attractive woman!
You helped prepare me for court twice. I used to be terrified that the judge would make me stay where my daughter and I were not going to be happy. And I knew deep in my heart what was needed for my little girl to be happy. And yes! I got the best result for my daughter and I in court – the freedom to live where I want so my daughter and I can flourish.
So we have now moved to the place I always wanted to be in and I am in that future right now – the one I was creating to be excited about… I’m here – wooo!
One of my biggest breakthroughs came once I’d healed the old beliefs and finished with healing my past hurt – it’s been the biggest gift of the year for me – and that is that the party (ie all the good stuff) is where I am, always. The point of attraction is in me. Not in anyone else. This is worth 10 times the negative – I will be able to do this for the rest of my life!
I am closer to my family than I have been in a very long time. I am trusting myself more each day, I am learning to love myself, to cherish myself and look after myself and most of all to have pleasure in life! I know how to ask for what I want and get it. I feel pleasure when I make decisions for myself, going to work and meeting new people, spending time with my daughter and when I catch myself being kind to myself.
I am just so proud of myself to be leading the way! I walk tall. I no longer live in fear, the power sits with me, nobody else!